Welcome to Harley Street Counselling and Training
Every service we offer is underpinned by an integrated approach towards personal support.
With 18 years experience in the field, we have developed a team which provides psychotherapy, counselling, CBT, and Logotherapy. We aim to offer your first appointment within a week of your initial enquiry. Therapy takes place in rooms located in Harley Street, Liverpool Street, Rochester and Tunbridge Wells .
Contact us now for a free confidential chat with an experienced therapist to discuss your options.
✔ Jealousy and insecurity
✔ Postnatal depression
✔ Additional speciality
✔ Online and Phone Counselling
Why choose Harley Street Counselling and Training?
1. Our therapists listen to your needs and place you at the centre of the work.
Harley Street Counselling and Training have the desire to understand your wants, needs, aspirations and goals. We are interested in how you want to work with us, which gives us the best chance of working collaboratively. Our work is underpinned by the person-centred approach, whilst integrating potent ways of working that is largely dependent on what you need from us. We hope that this gives you the sense that you are working with someone. As we offer a private counselling service, we are not pre-occupied by weekly form filling that eats away at your session time.
2. We recognise and accept that everyone is unique.
Therefore, we do not encourage manualised therapy where one size fits all.
3. Each counsellor works within their level of competence.
Although we offer many areas where we can help, we do not profess to work with every conceivable mental health issue. If what you are looking for falls outside of our remit, we will signpost you to alternative services where possible. If you are unsure, feel free to ask.
4. Our therapists are fully qualified and have the expertise to work within their counselling approach.
This means that the therapist has undergone significant training in a particular area as part of, or as a main component, of a recognised course. A Logotherapist, armed with a weekends worth of training is not a Logotherapist.
5. Continuing professional development is an ongoing requirement to ensure we offer high standards.
We undertake a minimum of 30 hours additional training a year. Our preference is to exceed this number during an academic year.
✔ Counselling Supervision
✔ Counsellor Training
✔ Online and Phone Counselling
Addiction therapy • Alcohol counselling
Do you need to eliminate alcohol from your life?
In our view, addiction is best worked with therapeutically when there is a good support network. The input from a G.P or Psychiatrist to manage physical withdrawal and full engagement with a group such as Alcoholics Anonymous are highly beneficial.
We support the idea of abstinence and the AA 12 step approach to recovery. We have worked with many clients who are engaged in the fellowship whilst working with us. Acknowledging that AA is not for everyone, we also work with people who choose abstinence through alternative methods.
To book an appointment for alcohol counselling in Tunbridge Wells, Rochester, Liverpool Street or Harley Street, please contact Harley Street Counselling and Training.
What points can you relate to when reflecting on your relationship with alcohol?
Therapy could help you identify healthy ways of working with feelings and dealing with underlying issues.
Alcohol has been proven to increase the risk of symptoms of anxiety and depression, therefore, alcohol does not solve problems, it reinforces them.
To book an appointment for addiction counselling in Tunbridge Wells, Rochester, Liverpool Street or Harley Street, please contact Harley Street Counselling and Training.
Adult children of alcoholics
An Adult Child is an adult who grew up in a dysfunctional environment where the parent was an alcoholic or an addict.
Change is facilitated by working through emotional and psychological issues in therapy.
To book an appointment in Harley Street, Liverpool Street, Rochester or Tunbridge Wells please contact Harley Street Counselling and Training.
Are you becoming more and more consumed by overthinking and worry?
Anxiety is the feeling of unease or fear when faced with a threatening or difficult situation, either real or perceived. It is also one of the most common reasons why people seek the support of a counsellor at Harley Street Counselling and Training.
How does anxiety manifest?
Generalised anxiety disorder (GAD) often relates to worry and overthinking. Social anxiety disorder extends to concerns about public ridicule, embarrassment or being judged.
Panic disorder is often experienced as overwhelmingly sudden feelings of terror which could induce a panic attack.
Somatisation, where emotions manifest as physical symptoms. The pain is medically unexplained. However, it is real. Sometimes existing pain from physical causes can be made worse by focusing on pain.
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is an anxiety-based mental health issue. It has proven that working with the behavioural aspects of OCD is the most effective way of working.
Anxiety symptoms commonly reported by clients in counselling.
Hyperventilating, shortness of breath, palpitations, muscle tension, nausea, butterflies, increased trips to the toilet, headaches, eye strain, tinitus, dry mouth, sweating, shaking, restless energy (adrenaline), twitches, dizziness, and too little or too much sleep.
Worry, feelings of unease, over thinking, catastrophising, obsessive thinking, black and White/all or nothing thinking, perfectionist, overwhelming emotions, low self-esteem, fear of being judged, a harsh self critic, feeling emotionally younger, difficulty concentrating, poor short term memory, indecisive, feeling out of control and too many thoughts at once.
Avoidance, checking, over researching symptoms, seeking reassurance, self medicating, restlessness, attempts to control environment.
To book an appointment for anxiety counselling in Tunbridge Wells, Rochester, Liverpool Street or Harley Street, please contact Harley Street Counselling and Training.
Counselling can be supportive during a difficult and painful time. The loss of a loved one can have a big impact on us. From numbness to a range of emotions, feeling bereft of someone close to us can affect us in many ways.
Feelings of grief can come and go and we may go through cycles of anger, denial, despair, depression whilst adjusting to life without our loved one. A bereavement counsellor can offer you a safe space to support you through this process that has no fixed time limit. Acceptance may form a large part of the healing and you will know when you feel ready.
We can also experience feelings of grief and loss whenever a major change or event occurs in life. Such changes might include separation, divorce, our response to an affair or betrayal, loss of health, moving home, difficulty conceiving, IVF treatment, miscarriage, abortion, children leaving home, redundancy, or retirement.
Feelings that come with grief and loss are a natural response to life changes. However, long-term it can lead to depression and anxiety. Psychotherapists and counsellors at Harley Street Counselling and Training are here to provide a confidential space where you can be heard in a safe, confidential environment.
To book an appointment for bereavement counselling in Tunbridge Wells, Harley Street, Liverpool Street or Rochester please contact Harley Street Counselling and Training.
The characteristics of co-dependency are not exclusive to partners of alcoholics or addicts - it's quite a wide area.
If you were raised in a dysfunctional environment as a child or had a parent that was ill growing up, it increases the chances of co-dependency in adulthood, but again, not exclusive. It's worth considering counselling and psychotherapy if you relate to some of the statements outlined.
Harley Street Counselling and Training offer counselling and psychotherapy to facilitate change. It might be useful to attend CoDA which is a 12-step programme for additional support where you will meet others in recovery.
To book an appointment for codependency counselling in Tunbridge Wells, Rochester, Liverpool Street or Harley Street, please contact Harley Street Counselling and Training.
Counselling for depression and postnatal depression
There are several types of Depression such as reactive, postnatal depression, season-affective disorder (SAD), bipolar types I and II. In general, sufferers of depression might experience low mood, highs, lows, worthlessness, meaninglessness, difficulty concentrating, short-term memory loss, mood swings, low self-esteem, lack of motivation, lethargy, lack of enthusiasm and negative thoughts.
Depression can make socialising more difficult and impact on our relationships, work, interests and wellbeing. Some people mask depression, hiding it from others and may appear happy. In the case of bipolar, the person may experience regular highs and lows.
Harley Street Counselling and Training accept referrals for mild to moderate depression, bipolar, reactive depression and seasonal affective disorder. Depression that occurs up to two years after giving birth is known as Post-Natal Depression. Counselling can be used as a support during this period.
To book an appointment for depression counselling in Tunbridge Wells, Rochester, Liverpool Street or Harley Street, please contact Harley Street Counselling and Training.
Counselling for Post Natal Depression
Depression that occurs up to two years after giving birth is known as Post-Natal depression.
You may experience low mood, worthlessness, meaninglessness, lethargy, mood swings and a lack of confidence and self-esteem. These symptoms may be present for women, men and partners and may gradually creep up on you rather than feel immediately obvious.
NHS Choices describe the symptoms as:
Speaking from experience, several themes seem to stand out for clients who come to therapy for postnatal depression.
Unresolved family and friendship issues: Tensions, resentments, or past disagreements that go unresolved (prior to a child being born) tends to come back and affect the person overwhelmingly.
Unresolved grief: from our past.
Adjusting: To the unforeseen changes that occur in life when a new baby arrives.
Over compensating: Feeling the need to ‘make it up’ to people on your return to work after having time on maternity leave and putting your needs last.
Competition: A real or perceived experience of competitive parents within the latest baby and toddler group. This often impacts self-worth and self-esteem.
Heightened awareness: Feelings of anxiety and going deeper into overthinking and worry.
The feeling of loneliness: even if we have people around us we may still feel a sense of withdrawal and isolation.
To book an appointment for counselling for postnatal depression in Tunbridge Wells, Rochester, Liverpool Street or Harley Street, please contact Harley Street Counselling and Training.
Dissociation • Abuse • Trauma
Sometimes we can become so traumatised that our body and mind disconnect from the situation to protect ourselves. Ever heard of flight, flight, freeze and fragment? In a trauma or panic, we may experience one of these things.
When a person experiences a dreamy state where there is no panic or feeling of terror, this is called dissociation. After a traumatic event, a person can drift in and out of this state.
If a person dissociates for a long time, you may develop a dissociative disorder. Instead of dissociation being something you experience short term, it becomes a far more common experience and often the main way stressful experiences are dealt with.
There are various dissociative disorders, and some people may experience other mental health problems also.
Psychological trauma to the body or mind refers to a powerful emotional response to a singular or series of events. The after-effects may be overwhelming and a person may feel scared, isolated, vulnerable and socially disconnected.
Not everyone will react to an event in the same way and for some, the symptoms may take weeks, months or many years to surface.
Instead, the trauma may be buried beneath depression, anxiety, or anger without the awareness of the cause.
Sometimes we can become so traumatised that our body and mind disconnect from the situation to protect ourselves. In a trauma or panic, we may experience fight, flight, freeze or fragment.
How can an event lead to trauma?
Examples of events that could lead to psychological trauma:
This abuse can cause many issues throughout adulthood which can affect relationships and trust in others. A person may also feel worthless and have self-destructive behaviour.
Enduring life-threatening injuries, suffering a bad fall, losing a limb, accidentally injuring someone, or receiving blows in an attack can also all require emotional support. These examples can impact psychologically, as well as physically.
Any of the above examples can cause both emotional and physical symptoms for many years after the event if not dealt with.
To book an appointment for counselling for trauma in Tunbridge Wells, Rochester, Liverpool Street or Harley Street, please contact Harley Street Counselling and Training.
Counselling for Jealousy and insecurity
Do you feel insecure about friendships or relationships? Do you blame the others for the way you feel? Do you try to find evidence that your partner is untrustworthy, even setting traps to catch them out? Do you fear being abandoned?
Recurring jealousy is a powerful form of insecurity that results in emotional outbursts and is driven by irrational thinking. Habitual jealousy can be toxic to relationships. You may find that you concentrate so much on what your partner might be up to; sacrificing your own freedom and living your own life within a loving relationship. Even if we feel justified, our reactions do not promote a good way forward for the relationship to flourish.
Carrying the burden of these feelings can contaminate our self-esteem and we may feel angry, inadequate, and dependent. Jealousy can feel all-consuming and can leave you feeling exhausted and miserable.
Feelings of jealousy can be overwhelming and can become the bone of contention within your relationships. The more jealous we feel, the more controlling our behaviour becomes. Jealousy and insecurity can help explore past and present causes of jealousy and manage overwhelming feelings and insecurities.
To book an appointment for counselling for jealousy in Tunbridge Wells, Rochester, Liverpool Street or Harley Street, please contact Harley Street Counselling and Training.
Stress counselling • Stress management
Stress can touch anyone regardless of who you are or what you do for a living. Stress occurs when the demands of our lives consistently outweigh our ability to cope. We often experience this as pressure and can lead to anxiety, depression or can lead to 'burn out'.
Burnout: This is normally a result of overstimulation or excessive stress. Physical, psychological and emotional exhaustion, frustration, intolerance, relationship issues, lack of self-care, low mood and lack of motivation are likely to be some of the indicators of burn out.
Over time, you find that you are losing energy; as your zest for life fades. By now this may have impacted important relationships and work life. A counsellor can help you spot the signs, manage the symptoms, work on preventative measures and go forward with greater meaning and purpose.
Rust out:Otherwise known as 'bore out'; it is the opposite of a burn out yet the symptoms are pretty much the same. Rust out is normally a result of under stimulation. Apathy, boredom, disinterest and lack of meaning are common experiences.
To book an appointment for stress counselling in Tunbridge Wells, Rochester, Liverpool Street, or Harley Street, please contact Harley Street Counselling and Training.
Additional interest & speciality
Supportive counselling for chronic fatigue syndrome.
A programme of pacing can be negotiated and the impact of the loss of health can be explored. How energy is distributed is also key, for example, worry and anxiety can be a component in some cases which uses up a lot of much-needed energy. Strategies to minimise the symptoms of chronic fatigue can be discussed with your therapist.
Counselling for adults with dyslexia and dyspraxia.
Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD): specialist therapy for OCD using CBT.
Gestalt psychotherapy techniques for recurring dreams and nightmares.
You may have had medical tests regarding recurring dreams and nightmares - and the results have offered you little insight, then maybe therapy is an option. We have experience working in this area.
Boxing: Psychotherapy and counselling for boxers (Amateur, Professional and Retired).
The sport of boxing has a unique culture and we respect the dedication required to perform. We offer therapy for the psychological stress of the sport, as well as the impacts and strains that go with the territory. We also understand how sportsmen & women can endure common life and mental health issues. Therapists who work with boxers need to understand the specifics of the sport. This is why our therapists are informed by research in the field and trained in-house prior to working in this area.
To book an appointment in Harley Street, Liverpool Street, Rochester or Tunbridge Wells please contact Harley Street Counselling and Training.
Online and Phone Counselling
Welcome to our online and phone service exclusively charged at £49 per session by appointment with a Harley Street Counsellor. Online sessions take place via a face to face online platform such as Skype. You will require a high-speed broadband connection, webcam and microphone. This can be tested between you and the counsellor in advance of starting a session.
Who is suitable for therapy online?
The counsellor will include you when assessing the suitability of working together. It is not safe or appropriate to work online if you are in immediate crisis, at risk of serious harm to yourself. It is also unsuitable if there is a mental health issue that is outside of the counsellors level of proficiency and/or where a G.P would need to be the first line of contact.
How does confidentiality work online?
In order to work safely with your counsellor, you will need to ensure that you reasonably minimise the risk of interruption and intrusion. Threats to confidentiality can come through 'others' having access to your passwords, online history and data. Therefore you might need to consider if this is a possibility that requires attention.
Contact Harley Street Counselling and Training.